Womens natural role is to collect, preserve, filter, judge and nurture, from the pool of things given to them. A womans world is like a garden of treasures. Womens mission is maintaining, growing that garden, to attract the wonders of the outside world, and, also defending that garden and its treasures from the unwanted. This is something I think about often when comparing it to the mans world.

Which is mostly out there, in the horizon, as a land to be conquered, where its all about mission, drive and abstraction. Men attack the tide and fail. Until the tide teaches them how. Then they master the tide. But the point today is that Men adapt their behavior to master the tide. Men make the tide their bitch. Women tame the tide to make it fit on the garden. Men subjugate. Women possess. Men conquer. Women seduce.

And the point is Changing behavior to get different results is counter intuitive for women. Whats intuitive for them is being different to get different results. And for men being different is counter intuitive. They want to know what should they do different, instead of how they should be. When lost, they cry what should I do? just tell me what I have to do! instead of I feel horrible, how should I be? Women expect others to adapt.

When its about behavior, women feel its everyone else who should change their behavior to give them the results they want. If she has to work hard it will feel forced, it wont naturally happen, its not meant to be, it wont feel good. Wont be natural. Wont fit. Even trained women see rewards as deserved by being special, not pure actions. Men value conquest through hard work against nature. Worlds differ sharply.